Family 3
Dear Au
Pair,
This is our
tenth year with Au Pair in America and we have been very
happy with our au pairs and the program!
In this letter we will tell you a little about us
so that you have a better idea of what life in our
family might be like.
We have two
children; a girl aged 16 and a boy aged 13.
They are happy, loving kids and look forward to
the friendship they develop each year with our au pair.
We all look forward to meeting you and learning
about you, your home, country, customs and traditions.
My husband
and I both have university degrees and work for the same
company. We have been with them for
23 years and, in this time, have worked in different
parts of America. We both enjoy
traveling and often travel all over the world for our
jobs.
The kids
each have a pet – our daughter has a bird and our son
has as guinea pig. Let us describe a
typical day for you:
During the
school year (mid August to early June) you will either
drive the children to and from high school or to and
from middle school. We carpool with
another family and rotate who drives each week.
This may change this coming year because our
daughter will get her driving license this summer.
During the day you are free to take classes, go
to the library, relax around the house or visit with
friends. Between 3 and 6pm you will
pick the kids up from school and when they arrive home
they’ll have a snack and do their homework
Then you might drive them to sports practice or
take them to a friend’s house to play.
Both my husband and I get home at around 6:00pm.
During the
summer months your schedule will vary according to what
activities the children are involved in.
They might take swimming lessons at a local pool,
have a babysitting job or play with friends.
You can also take them on special outings such
as to a museum, amusement park or a movie.
Our daughter is hoping to get her first job this
summer. You will have free time most
evenings and weekends. There are a
large number of au pairs in the Cincinnati area, so
you’ll make many friends. You are
welcome to go out with friends, work out at a health
club, relax or do whatever you like to do during your
free time. You’ll find a lot to do
here.
We have a
vacation home in Massachusetts and sometimes go there
for 1 – 2 weeks in the summer. The
beaches are beautiful there and we like to take part in
windsurfing, swimming and biking.
You will have access to our car to take the kids to and
from their activities during the day.
With permission you will also be able to use it
for your own activities in the evenings and on weekends.
Our house is two storeys tall with five bedrooms.
You will have your own bedroom and bathroom.
The kids each have their own bedroom and share a
bathroom right next to yours. Our
living room has a billiard table and we often play games
in the evening after dinner. The
basement is a place we workout and play.
My husband keeps his exercise equipment there.
There is also a ‘movie’ room with a large screen
TV.
There is so
much we could tell you but, for now, we’ll just say that
we are looking forward to developing a mutually
rewarding relationship with you. We
hope to learn more about you and your country and will
help you discover America. We can’t
wait to meet you and are eager for you to become part of
our family!
Family 4
Our family
currently consists of Mom, Dad, three kids and our dog.
I am a real estate agent and my wife is a real
estate consultant specializing in hotels.
Our dog is really well behaved and very friendly
with new people. Our current au pair
is from Austria.
Our daughter
is 10-years old and loves school, soccer and music.
She particularly loves to read and, like most
10-year old girls, likes to hang our in her room with
friends listening to music and talking.
She is very athletic – she’s on two soccer teams
and also plays lacrosse. Right now,
the thing she is most excited about is the 10 days she
will spend at a camp in Arizona this summer going
horseback riding.
Our son is 6
– he will be 7 by the time you arrive – and is a very
normal little boy, which basically means he is a good
kid but loves to bug his sister sometimes!
He really loved first grade this year and is
considered one of the friendliest and nicest in his
class. His favourite sport is
baseball. One of our favourite
things about the kids is that they are such good
friends. Of course, they do argue
sometimes, but they also have a lot of games that they
like to play together.
We live in a
small town that is 30 minutes north of New York City.
The house is fairly large, with six bedrooms.
We have access to the internet and our au pairs
are always welcome to use the computer to stay in touch
with family and friends. Our
neighborhood is nice with lots of families and smaller
kids. Our house is within walking
distance of the train station (about a 10 minute walk)
and the train into Manhattan takes 30 minutes, making it
easy to visit all the wonderful things there.
Some of our past au pairs have taken classes in
the city. Others have attended
classes at one of several colleges in the area.
The family
schedule is organized around the children and the fact
that both my wife and I work. In the
summer the hours are more along the lines of 9:00am to
6:00pm with no real weekend hours.
Both kids will be going to camp for two weeks at the
country club. Our son is also signed
up for one week of baseball camp.
Because of our schedules, we need someone to take care
of the kids when we are at work. We
like having an au pair because this provides us with a
happy, energetic young person to spend time with the
kids. We hope the au pair will feel
comfortable in our home – and will be a partner with us
in raising the kids. We want so many
things for them, and the best way to do this is to get
to know people from different cultures and to learn
about the customs of other countries.
An au pair is a great way to accomplish this and
we’ve always encourage au pairs to teach the kids about
their country, language and favourite foods.
At the same
time we can share our lives and culture with the au
pair. This means not only our local town but also other
areas of the U.S.
Family 5
Dear Au Pair,
Welcome to America and
welcome to our family. I would like
to introduce ourselves. We are a
very international family. My
husband was born in France, I was born in New York, our
son was born in London and our daughter in the USA – so
we are accustomed to different cultures, countries and
values. Both my husband and I are
French originally but have lived abroad for many years.
Both of the kids are bilingual French / English
as they go every summer to see the grandparents and now
attend a French / American school in the neighborhood.
Both my husband and I
work. My husband works in the hair
colorants business so please feel free to ask him all
the tricks-of-the-trade! I work 3
days a week in the cosmetics business.
Our son is a lively and
very sociable young boy. His
favourite way to spend a day is to have friends over to
play with his remote controlled cars, legos and
costumes. He really enjoys swimming
and playing in the pool, or even better, in the waves of
the ocean. Our daughter is a sharp,
loving young girl. She enjoys
reading tremendously, and after school she likes to
pretend to do some ‘homework’ as her brother does his.
It seems as if she can’t wait to grow up.
Our children get along well (most of the time)
and play nicely together. They
really love playing hide and seek around the house or
the garden.
Ever since our son was
born 7 years ago we have had an au pair live with us
from all different countries – France, Scotland, South
Africa and Philippines. We have
always enjoyed nice relationships with the different au
pairs we welcomed to our house and the children really
like having a young person around the house.
As we are not far from the
city, we believe we have the best of both worlds – the
city buzz whenever we want it and the pleasure of having
a nice house in a quiet neighborhood. Our town has a
small city center with one long street with shops three
minutes away from our house. There
are plenty of activities for you to do in the area.
There are plenty of shopping malls as well as
movie theaters and if you enjoy sports there is a public
swimming pool, ice skating ring, tennis courts etc.
And last but not least our house is about 1
minute away by foot to the ocean!
Our house has five
bedrooms so you will have your own with your private
bathroom, both of which have a nice view of the garden.
You will also have your own car, which will be
used primarily to drop of the children at school.
The added benefit is that in your free time you
have full access to this car to drive wherever you want
in the area. For us the au pairs is
a new member to the family who shares our meals (when
she feels like it), will come on holiday with us at
times. We hope to make you feel at
home very, very fast. In terms of
chores we only expect you to take care of things related
to the children, which means tidying up their rooms and
ironing their clothes.
And last but not least we
really hope you will have lots of fun with us.
We really like the au pairs as they usually have
a cheerful, loving, positive attitude!